A little Atypical

A Little Atypical is for the under-represented areas that often get overlooked in the wellness space. From the struggles of navigating your 20s to the overwhelming amount of stress that comes with becoming who you desire to be. Wellness is more than the beauty products, the aesthetics, and the more obvious ways of growth and development, and we are here to cover it all.
Episodes
Episodes



Monday May 26, 2025
52. How to start viewing yourself as a safe place
Monday May 26, 2025
Monday May 26, 2025
Discover the crucial difference between comfort and safety in your personal growth journey! In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into why some people struggle with stepping out of their comfort zones and explore a fresh perspective on building self-trust. Learn how to become your own safe haven while embracing discomfort as a catalyst for growth.
š« Key Topics:
Understanding the distinction between safety and comfort in personal development
How insecurity serves as a protective mechanism in our lives
Practical strategies for building self-trust and inner safety
Transforming your relationship with discomfort
Special moonology card reading for guidance and insight
šÆ Perfect for anyone looking to build genuine confidence, overcome fear of being seen, and create a stronger relationship with themselves. Whether you're new to personal development or a seasoned self-growth enthusiast, this episode offers valuable insights for your journey.
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Music by Remil - Evening Tea - https://thmatc.co/?l=DFECB5D4
#PersonalGrowth #SelfDevelopment #Wellness #MentalHealth #Spirituality #Mindfulness #SelfTrust #Confidence #Podcast #PersonalDevelopment
personal development, self growth, self help, mental health tips, emotional wellness, self care routine, mindfulness tips, healing journey, inner work, personal transformation, confidence building, anxiety tips, self trust, wellness podcast, positive mindset, spiritual growth, self love journey, mindful living, personal growth tips, emotional intelligence



Monday May 19, 2025
51. Mindset Shift for Negative Self-Talk
Monday May 19, 2025
Monday May 19, 2025
šļø Struggling with self-doubt and negative self-talk? In this empowering episode, we dive deep into the psychology behind our fears and intimidation, revealing how these limiting beliefs are learned behaviors - not permanent traits. Discover why what you perceive as "hard" might just be unfamiliar, and learn practical strategies to transform your mindset from self-doubt to self-empowerment.
Through personal stories and powerful insights, we explore:
How society's performance mindset affects our approach to challenges
Why genuine interests persist despite our attempts to suppress them
The truth about building authentic confidence through action
Practical steps to reconnect with your natural curiosity and love for learning
Plus, stay tuned for our special Moonology card reading that perfectly aligns with our discussion on self-talk and personal growth. Whether you're facing career challenges, creative blocks, or personal obstacles, this episode provides the perspective shift you need to move forward with confidence.
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Music by Remil - Evening Tea - https://thmatc.co/?l=DFECB5D4
š Key tags: mindset shift, personal development, confidence building, overcoming fear, self improvement, life coaching, motivation, learning strategies, growth mindset, mental health, limiting beliefs, self discovery, productivity tips, self help, positive mindset, psychology, personal transformation, success mindset, inner work, mindfulness, dealing with anxiety, learning habits, self awareness, goal setting, imposter syndrome
#PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #SelfDevelopment #Motivation #Confidence #Podcast #Growth #Learning #SelfTalk #Mindfulness



Monday May 12, 2025
50. It's Time To Take An Active Role In Your Life
Monday May 12, 2025
Monday May 12, 2025
In this episode, we explore the transformative power of taking an active role in your life. We dive deep into what it means to be forward-thinking and proactive, especially from a woman's perspective, and examine the consequences of passive living. Through personal anecdotes and practical insights, we'll discuss how to move beyond uncertainty and take meaningful steps toward personal growth.
Key Topics Covered:
Special Scorpio Full Moon card reading and its significance
The balance between reflection and action
Making moves despite uncertainty
Personal stories and real-life examples of transformation
Consequences of passive living and reactive decision-making
The meaning of forward thinking and active participation in life
This episode is perfect for you if you are...
š Ready to embrace a more proactive lifestyle
š Working on building emotional intelligence
š Navigating uncertainty in your life decisions
š Interested in unconventional approaches to wellness
š Seeking guidance on personal development and growth
š Looking to take more control of your life journey
Connect with me:
Check out my blog atĀ www.SimplyLay.com
Pinterest- @Simplylayxx
Twitter- @Simplylayxx
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YouTube- @SimplyLayxx
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Music by Remil - Evening Tea - https://thmatc.co/?l=DFECB5D4
š Tags: personal development, active living, forward thinking, women empowerment, self-improvement, emotional intelligence, personal growth, decision making, mindful living, self-discovery, transformation, spirituality, wellness journey, life coaching, mindset shift, personal reflection, self-awareness, intentional living, life purpose, self-empowerment
#PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #WomenEmpowerment #Wellness #IntentionalLiving #PersonalGrowth #MindfulLiving #SelfDiscovery #EmotionalIntelligence #Transformation #WellnessJourney #Spirituality #MindsetShift #LifePurpose #SelfAwareness #PersonalReflection #ForwardThinking #ActiveLiving #SelfEmpowerment #Growth



Thursday Mar 27, 2025
49. Ins and Outs to identify shifting
Thursday Mar 27, 2025
Thursday Mar 27, 2025
š§ Continuing last week's transformative discussion, join Lay on 'A Little Atypical' as she explores practical strategies for identity shifts by examining what to embrace and what to release. This episode dives deep into the "ins and outs" of personal growth, featuring honest reflections on overthinking, perfectionism, and the journey toward authentic living.
Key topics include: ⢠Breaking free from overthinking and analysis paralysis ⢠Releasing perfectionist tendencies ⢠Adapting routines to align with current lifestyle ⢠Learning to trust decisions without external validation ⢠Journal prompts for mental decluttering
This episode offers valuable insights for anyone looking to shed limiting behaviors while embracing growth-oriented mindsets. Includes our signature self-care card pull focusing on gratitude
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Music by Remil - Evening Tea - https://thmatc.co/?l=DFECB5D4
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Recent Blogs:
Spring Prep
Link: https://www.simplylay.com/post/spring-prep-in-2025
Tips to Manage Decision Fatigue
Link: https://www.simplylay.com/post/tips-to-manage-decision-fatigueĀ
The Foundations of Healthy Love
Link: https://www.simplylay.com/post/the-foundations-of-healthy-loveĀ
Balancing Self-Care with Caring for others
Link: https://www.simplylay.com/post/balancing-self-care-with-caring-for-othersĀ
Embracing Life's Plot Twists (March 2025)
Link: https://www.simplylay.com/post/embracing-lifes-plot-twists-march-2025Ā Ā
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practice! #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery #Authenticity #MentalHealth #Podcast
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Thursday Mar 20, 2025
48. Letting go of old identities (Mental declutter for Spring)
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
š§ Join Lay on 'A Little Atypical' as she explores the transformative journey of letting go of old identities. In this introspective episode, she delves into the challenges of being a highly sensitive introvert and shares personal insights about reframing rather than abandoning core personality traits. Through vulnerable storytelling and practical wisdom, Lay discusses how to honor your authentic self while creating healthier boundaries and relationships.
Key topics include: ⢠Navigating sensitivity and introversion ⢠Setting healthy boundaries ⢠Identifying which traits to reframe vs. release ⢠Personal growth and self-acceptance ⢠Managing energy in relationships
Perfect for anyone on a journey of self-discovery, struggling with identity shifts, or looking to better understand their own personality traits. Plus, enjoy our signature self-care card pull and gratitude practice at the end!
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Check out my blog atĀ www.SimplyLay.com
Music by Remil - Evening Tea - https://thmatc.co/?l=DFECB5D4
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Recent Blogs:
Spring Prep
Link: https://www.simplylay.com/post/spring-prep-in-2025
Tips to Manage Decision Fatigue
Link: https://www.simplylay.com/post/tips-to-manage-decision-fatigueĀ
The Foundations of Healthy Love
Link: https://www.simplylay.com/post/the-foundations-of-healthy-loveĀ
Balancing Self-Care with Caring for others
Link: https://www.simplylay.com/post/balancing-self-care-with-caring-for-othersĀ
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#PersonalDevelopment #SelfDiscovery #Identity #Authenticity #Podcast #Spring2025 #SpringReset #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #Podcast
personal development, mental health, self discovery, identity journey, letting go, personality traits, emotional growth, highly sensitive person, introvert life, authenticity journey, self acceptance, mindfulness podcast, wellness journey, personal transformation, healing journey, boundaries, self-reflection, self care tips, personal growth journey, mindset shifts, behavioral psychology, self help, holistic wellness, self improvement, toxic traits, self care practices, life transitions, inner work, shadow work, wellness podcast, journaling prompts, lifestyle podcast, self care routine, spirituality, personal boundaries, intentional living, coping mechanisms, emotional intelligence, vulnerability, self awareness



Thursday Mar 06, 2025
47. Identity work in 2025
Thursday Mar 06, 2025
Thursday Mar 06, 2025
In this thought-provoking episode of A Little Atypical, we dive deep into the complex process of identity work and self-deconstruction. Moving beyond the superficial "glow up" trends of 2025, we explore why identity transformation content often oversimplifies what should be a nuanced journey. Learn about the importance of examining your beliefs, understanding behavioral patterns, and discovering your authentic self through conscious choice rather than conditioning.
Key Topics Covered:
Understanding self-deconstruction and its philosophical roots
The difference between surface-level change and deeper identity work
Personal insights and experiences with identity transformation
Practical journal prompts for self-reflection
Plus: Special oracle card reading focusing on spring renewal and creating clear spaces, both physically and mentally. Don't miss the announcement about our new posting schedule!
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Music by Remil - Evening Tea - https://thmatc.co/?l=DFECB5D4
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#PersonalDevelopment #SelfDiscovery #Identity #Authenticity #Podcast #Spring2025 #SpringPrep
identity transformation, personal development journey, self discovery tips, authentic self, personal growth, self reflection, identity work, self discovery journey, self improvement, inner work, personal transformation, mindset shift, self awareness, healing journey, self development tips, journal prompts, self discovery questions, identity exploration, self discovery podcast, life transformation, authenticity journey, finding yourself, self help, spiritual growth, personal evolution, mindful living, self care routine, lifestyle changes, personal breakthrough, self acceptance, emotional healing



Monday Feb 24, 2025
46. AI in personal development: Helpful or harmful
Monday Feb 24, 2025
Monday Feb 24, 2025
Is AI the secret weapon for personal growth, or could it be holding you back? In this eye-opening episode, we break down the real pros and cons of using artificial intelligence for self-development. Plus, discover practical, actionable strategies for leveraging AI tools to accelerate your growth while maintaining authentic inner work. From ChatGPT life coaching to AI-powered habit tracking, learn what actually works and what to avoid in your personal development journey.
Key Topics Covered:
The role of AI in personal development and self-improvement
Balancing technological efficiency with authentic introspection
Practical ways to use AI tools mindfully in your growth journey
Creating effective systems that combine human wisdom with AI capabilities
Environmental and societal implications of AI integration
Plus: Real-world applications of AI in personal growth
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Music by Remil - Evening Tea - https://thmatc.co/?l=DFECB5D4
Recent Blog posts:
The Decision to stop hiding (isolation vs solitude)
Summer Isn't Everything: Creating Year-Round Happiness
Consistency is construction
You arenāt stuck, youāre being saved
Finding your "why" isnāt about reasoning
References and Research https://www.tableau.com/data-insights/ai/history https://online.maryville.edu/blog/history-of-ai/ https://www.britannica.com/science/history-of-artificial-intelligence https://sloanreview.mit.edu/article/will-ai-help-or-hurt-sustainability-yes/ https://www.unep.org/news-and-stories/story/ai-has-environmental-problem-heres-what-world-can-do-about https://www.immerse.education/study-tips/ai-enabled-personal-development/ https://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Strahan_Sara_and_Keke/video/trust-artificial-intelligence-therapist-69257342
https://abcnews.go.com/Technology/video/ai-tool-reduce-stress-107593762
https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2018/business/alexa-does-not-understand-your-accent/
https://hbr.org/2018/02/can-we-keep-our-biases-from-creeping-into-ai
https://www.nyu.edu/about/news-publications/news/2024/december/-us--vs---them--biases-plague-ai--too.html
https://ncnewsline.com/2024/10/12/as-ai-takes-the-helm-of-decision-making-signs-of-perpetuating-historic-biases-emerge/
Barbiebrains: she spoke about how itās an enemy to all disciplines and how itās because when you set the foundation of place based on the idea of personal advancement, in peopleās eyes the pathway ways for success are threatened. She describes anti intellectualism as the tension between the foundation and the evolution of beliefs (https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2hRUfms/)
Irene breaks down why negative reviews are important: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2h89bYS/
š Keywords, Tags: artificial intelligence, personal development, self-improvement, mindfulness, technology integration, critical thinking, authentic growth, digital wellness, AI tools, personal transformation, self-awareness, conscious technology use, digital mindfulness, inner work , women's empowerment, productivity with purpose, balanced lifestyle, mindful consumption, soul alignment,
#WellnessJourney #WomenEmpowerment #MindfulLiving #IntentionalGrowth #AIandPersonalGrowth #DigitalWellness #PersonalDevelopment #MindfulTechnology



Monday Feb 17, 2025
45. Tips for making your digital space positive
Monday Feb 17, 2025
Monday Feb 17, 2025
Ready to detox your digital life? š± In this mindful tech guide, we're diving deep into the art of intentional online living. Whether you're a content creator feeling burnout or someone looking to make social media work for (not against) you, we've got game-changing strategies to help you thrive in the digital age. Let's transform your online experience from overwhelming to empowering! āØ
Key Topics Covered:
Creating content sustainably while safeguarding your mental health
Practical ways to manage information overload
Fostering genuine connections in online communities
Understanding creator types and their influence
Setting healthy digital boundaries
Plus: Special card reading
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Check out my blog at www.SimplyLay.com
Music by Remil - Evening Tea - https://thmatc.co/?l=DFECB5D4
š Keywords, Tags: digital wellness, content creation, mental health, social media management, online boundaries, digital space curation, content strategy, creator mindset, digital minimalism, online authenticity, personal development, wellness podcast, digital wellbeing, social media wellness, content planning, digital boundaries, online community building, digital self-care, creator burnout prevention, mindful content consumption
#DigitalWellness #ContentCreation #MentalHealth #SocialMedia #OnlineAuthenticity #CreatorLife #DigitalMinimalism

WelcomeĀ
Hello! My name is Alayjah J. I typically go by Lay and I am NYC content creator. At 17 years old, I started my personal development blog and throughout college outside of my major, I took classes on design and wellness to further improve my creation. For more topics, check out my blog and YouTube channel!





