A little Atypical

26. Let's talk about the body: changes, anxiety and tough conversations

Let's deep dive into the complex issue of body image, societal expectations, and self-perception. Sharing her journey of what led to her struggles with food, Lay provides a raw and honest account of her experiences. This episode traverses topics of body positivity, fat acceptance, weight loss, and the transition from girlhood to womanhood. It also addresses the multi-faceted reasons behind body changes and the societal structures contributing to our self-perception. Join us for this candid discussion that serves as a reminder that everyone has insecurities, and it's essential to address them gently and honestly.
 
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summer, weight loss, fat loss, fat acceptance, relationship with food, healing relationship with food, summer anxiety, body image, sensitive topic, storytime, womanhood, girlhood, mental health, perspective, personal responsibility, life lessons

25. Summer Prep: Intentions, Ins & Out and Mid-Year Check-in

It is about to be the 6th month of 2024. June is soon on the way and while most people wait until the end of June or early July to do a mid-year check-in, there is no harm in starting early. Astrologically speaking we are now in Gemini season and with the recent full moon in Sagittarius, Alayjah shares her summer intentions, what she wants to welcome in the season, and what she's taking out of her life. She also does a half-year recap about her year 1 and year 2 while using the 12-week year productivity system. Today is about having genuine conversations about the twenty-something experience.
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24. Having Perspective is valuable for taking action

In this episode, we talk about letting go of the fear of getting started. One of the biggest reasons so many people hold themselves back from their dreams and goals is because they are worried about the competitive space. They constantly hear an industry is too saturated, that there is no room and that to really make it they have to be original. This episode discusses why it is okay to try something regardless of the competitive space because it is more important to be unique than original. There is so much value in allowing your perspective to be seen. As an example, we also discuss remakes and retelling of shows and movies to connect to a pop-culture example of why uniqueness works (Caution: a very hot take is discussed). Remakes are modern examples as to why you can do something that has already been done and still make it unique and the psychological appeal of familiarity.
 
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Video Chapters
Intro- 00:00
Having Perspective: Being Original vs Being Unique- 01:04
Storytelling and Rage over remakes: People's issue with diversity doesn't make sense (Hot Take)- 02:56
Reasons why people hold themselves back from taking action- 18:56
Card pull - 25:05
What I’m Grateful for - 28:06
 
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Marketing, economics, commentary, hot takes, NYC content creator, full-time content creator, opinions, celebrities, influencers, influencer culture, social responsibility, authenticity, avantika rapunzel fancast, Remakes, Spinoffs, Storytelling, Media commentary, pop culture, wellness, motivation, goals, competitive, Tangle live action, Little mermaid, "blackwashing", diversity, social commentary, Psychology, Mere Exposure effect, life observations
 

23. Is being the "It Girl " no longer it?

Given the recent events such as the Met Gala, " Let them eat cake", and Block2024 movement, etc. along with world events escalating, are the stars falling? Wealth gaps growing increasingly larger, and overconsumption becoming a bigger issue, does this mean being the "it girl" is over? For the past years, people used terms like "it girl", "her", and "that girl" to romanticize their lives but with the economic state of the world, celebrity culture and influencer culture will be on the downturn unless they find a way to be more down to earth. Enter: the people's princess. A new word on the scene to describe the more down-to-earth upper class. In this episode, we cover it all to talk about how the state of the world is influencing our beliefs and actions.
 
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Video Chapters
Intro- 00:00
Celebrity Culture - 02:52
People's Princess vs the It Girl- 05:09
Stop keeping up with XYZ - 09:31
Card pull - 17:54
What I’m Grateful for - 22:25
 
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met gala 2024, it girl youtube channel, pretty girl youtube channel, it girl, Overconsumption, consumerism, marketing, economics, commentary, hot takes,
NYC content creator, full-time content creator, opinions, celebrities, influencers, influencer culture, social responsibility, authenticity, being down-to-earth 

22. Remember to live, not just exist

Do you ever feel like you are just existing? Like you are breathing, physically here, but time is just passing you. As if the way you function is on autopilot. This episode will be a meaningful discussion about enjoying life again and discuss some of the reasons we get into that head space in the first place. This is not a professional opinion, more like a mere observation to start the conversation of the long-asked question " How does someone have a quality life?". Stay tuned!
 
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Video Chapters
Intro- 00:00
Why people “exist” instead of live- 01:00
“All or Nothing” Mindset- 02:00
Overthinking- 05:34
[Trigger warning] Depression and poor mental health - 08:20
Aging and Profection years (5th House year) - 11:36
Regrets on taking life too seriously- 13:11
Reminder to stay curious and spontaneous - 16:42
Card pull - 21:33
What I’m Grateful for - 23:47
 
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Music by Remil - Evening Tea - https://thmatc.co/?l=DFECB5D4
 
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Lifestyle, what is the meaning of life, daily wisdom, connection, goals, dreams, dreamlife, purpose, life purpose, happiness, gratitude, everything, all or nothing, mindset, social connection, growth mindset, changes, life lessons, this little life, inner peace, life goals, determination 
 
 

21. The Underrepresented 20-something-yr-old Experience

This episode is a letter to the 20-something-year-olds who feel left out in the conversation of navigating their 20s. This is for introverts and loners who have to learn how to socialize, build support systems, and maintain them. The people who have to stay at their parents' house through college and maybe some years after. People who have anxiety about not accomplishing things fast enough. People who want to be that girl, guy, or person but their current life doesn't have the most ideal starting point. Sometimes wellness content feels unrelatable because your experiences aren't highlighted because of the lack of awareness but even if you aren't where you want to be, you will get there. This a reminder and a letter to you. Everyone deserves to remember that wellness and personal development are not a one-size-fits-all.
 

20. Main Character Energy: Calling in confidence & releasing insecure behaviors

Spring is the season of rebirth, so with the eclipse/ new moon in the sign of Aries (the 1st sign of the zodiac), there is no better time to call in new energy. This spring (and by extension, summer) is all about hot girl (guy/person) energy and being the main character of our lives. We explore the concept of "main character energy," dispelling common misconceptions and highlighting its true meaning. Emphasize that "main character energy" is about aligning your decisions and actions with your values and living authentically. Lay also delves into the harmful effects of insecure behavior, societal beauty standards, cultural differences, and the importance of self-confidence. 
 
Video Chapters
Why I want to talk about this - 00:00
Misconceptions of main character energy - 01:34
Having insecurities vs insecure behavior - 06:59
Letting go of insecure energy - 09:41
Embrace being the main character- 15:22
Card pull - 18:42
What I’m grateful for - 20:05

19. How to make genuine friendships and connections

Loneliness is on the rise and have you ever stopped to think "why"? It is easy to write off our lack of connection as a result of technology (aka the digital age), but Lay hypothesizes it is more than simply that. In today's episode, we cover intent conversations such as "Basic" vs "Not like other girls", and "High Maintenance" friends vs "Low Maintenance" friends, and how those conversations create a deficit in having genuine connections. Additionally, we are including a list of considerations when it comes to making friends so we can reflect on what truly contributes to loneliness. Sometimes it's not about people being good or bad friends because that is subjective, but it's important to figure out the right friends for you!
 
Also since the full reading was not included here is the details on the Dragon spirit card:
 
SEEING ONE'S MOST TRUE SELF, BALANCING THE EGO
The Dragon sees everything. Its essence has been with us since before our first breath and will be there at our last. It watches us navigate the external world as well as our inner world.
 
When Dragon energy is awakened, we are courageous, visionary, and can easily drop into witness consciousness. It is almost as if we are traveling with a great friend inside of ourselves. When we look in the mirror, deep into our eyes, we may even glimpse the "self" behind the "self," the one who is watching us. This is the power of the Dragon breathing transformative fire into every cell of our bodies. Witnessing this omnipotent energy, even for a brief moment, helps us surrender and let go.
We let the Dragon guide us. We hop on its back for a ride, and as we traverse even the most difficult terrain, the Dragon's eyes see beauty everywhere. It is said that if a yogi does not see beauty in the world, their Agni is dim. Agni is described as"inner fire" or "sacred intelligence." May even just the mention of the Dragon stir the embers of intelligence within you.
 
The subtle energy of the Dragon lives at the navel center, in the Manipura chakra. Manipura translates to "the city of hidden gems" and behind its gates burns the fire of our transformation and digestion. The sages believe the health of the fire at the navel center is what governs our ability to clearly "see" both the inner and outer dimensions.
Video Chapters
Why I want to talk about this - 00:00
Social media’s influence on Friendship beliefs - 05:50
Things to consider when determining a quality friendship - 12:37
My friendship experience - 18:03
Card pull - 22:09
What I’m grateful for - 23:40